Crushes and How to Deal with Them

Salamualikum. Thanks to Anonymous for this topic and I hope this helps your situation, Inshallah. Let me know if you have further questions, or if it helped you.


You may feel you are being attracted to the opposite gender; but it is not the question of having one, it is the question of how you deal with it.


The wrong way to deal with it is to start purposefully daydreaming about him/her, to begin chatting about your crush to your friends, keeping the idea as a play-thing. Some people may even go to their crush and tell them that they like him/her.

Try to avoid occupying your mind with your crush; try to distract yourself by reading Quran, listening to a nice Nasheed, reading an appropriate book. If you find it difficult, seek help from Allah(SWT).

I hope, Anonymous, that this post answered your concern, and I compliment your seeking knowledge to better your Islam. If you have any further questions relating to your situation, let me know. And to everyone, if you have any other questions and such relating to this topic, feel free to leave a comment.



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